How To Stop Lusting For Someone . Lust is obsessive and selfish. Suppose you made up your mind you were going to make it through one day without lusting after a woman.
We live in a world with a lust problem. Infatuation is an irrational need for somebody, similar to a strong crush or lust. If you stay away from porn (even softcore), repent (to god) for your previous involvement in it,* you will stop objectifying women that you meet in real life as much.
I want to stop myself from lusting for him and wanting forgive him because he hurt my sister (and me as well)
He cheated on my sister and really really hurt her (emotionally not physically). As christians, we are taught to guard our hearts against it, because it has nothing to do with the love that god wants for each of us. It helps if you cut out lust in other areas where you do have control, like porn. Or perhaps you have no clue why this is a temptation for people but would like to be someone others can confide in and get advice from.